脱单记，从零到一的恋爱养成游戏和女朋友谈恋爱养成游戏

每个人的人生中，总会有那么一段特别的日子，让人觉得特别而难忘，这段经历始于一个偶然的相遇，却 ended with a successful dating game that changed my life forever.

记得那是大学刚毕业的时候，我刚刚从一个充满阳光和希望的校园里走出来了，却遇到了人生中第一个真正让我心动的女孩，她叫小雨，是一个性格温柔、 always-smiling 的女生，第一次见到她，是在学校的一次社团活动中，当时我正在参加一个摄影比赛，她却刚好也在场，我们的目光在镜头前相遇，那种感觉就像春天的 first snowflakes,让人无法用语言形容。

小雨总是给人一种 very calm and collected 的感觉，即使在最混乱的时刻，她也能保持自己的 cool. 我发现她对生活有着独特的见解，总是能够从平凡中发现美好，她喜欢 reading books, traveling, and trying new things. 我开始主动和她交流，发现她和我有很多共同的兴趣爱好，比如喜欢听音乐、喜欢看日剧，甚至喜欢尝试各种美食，渐渐地,我们的关系变得越来越亲密。

这段感情的开始并不容易，最开始的几个月，我们只是形形色色的 friends, 没有太多深入的交流，那时候，我总是担心自己会不会做错什么，或者她会不会不喜欢我，每次和她约会，我都会紧张得手心冒汗，生怕自己说错话或者做错事，她也曾经试图告诉我，不要过于担心，但我知道，她的话听起来总是那么轻松,却让我感到非常压力。

幸运的是，小雨总是 very supportive and understanding. 她会在我最困难的时候陪伴我，也会在我犯错的时候耐心地指出我的错误，她的这种态度让我感到 very grateful and lucky. 我开始逐渐 trust her, and she also started to trust me. 我们之间的关系变得越来越亲密，甚至在一些私人场合，我也能够 very comfortable being myself.

这段感情的真正开始，是在我们第一次正式约会的时候，那天，小雨邀请我去看一场电影，她选择了 very niche 的类型片，The Grand Budapest Hotel》，当时我有点担心，因为我不确定自己是否能跟得上她的兴趣，但小雨却 very confident地告诉我，她会 very enjoying it. 结果，那场电影真的让我大开眼界，也让我意识到，原来电影的世界是如此的广阔和有趣，小雨的推荐让我 very impressed, and I decided to follow her lead.

从那以后，我们的约会变得更加有趣和充满惊喜，小雨总是 very creative and willing to try new things. 她会 very surprised me with little gifts, like a bouquet of flowers or a handwritten note, and she would also very surprised me with her knowledge on various topics, from history to science. 我发现，和她约会的过程就像是一场 very well-planned dating game, 每一步都充满了惊喜和不确定性。

这段感情的初期也遇到了一些挑战，我们会因为意见不合而发生争执，甚至有过短暂的争吵，但每次当我冷静下来，重新审视问题时，我都会 very grateful that我们能够 very understanding each other. 小雨总是 very patience and understanding, and she would very calmly explain her perspective, even when I didn't understand her. 这种耐心和理解让我感到 very lucky, and I know that she would very proud of me for being able to handle such situations with such grace.

随着时间的推移，我们的关系变得更加亲密和稳定，我们开始一起规划未来，讨论我们的职业发展、婚姻计划，甚至我们的孩子，小雨总是 very open and honest, and she would very freely分享她对生活的看法和期望，她告诉我，她希望和我一起创造一个 happy 和稳定的生活，而我也 very much agree with her. 我们之间的信任和理解让我感到 very safe and secure, and I know that this relationship is very special.

这段感情的真正突破，是在我们第一次正式的“脱单”时刻，那天，小雨邀请我参加她的毕业典礼，她要 very formally wear a dress and give a speech. 我当时有点紧张，不知道自己是否能够 very comfortable in such a formal setting. 但小雨却 very confident地告诉我，她会 very enjoying it, and she would very much look out for me. 结果，当我穿上那件漂亮的白色连衣裙，站在台上时，我感到 very nervous, but also very excited. 小雨在台下一直 very encouraging and supportive, and her presence made me feel very confident. 当我开始演讲时，我竟然 very流利地表达了我的想法，甚至得到了毕业典礼主席的高度评价，那一刻，我感到 very proud and grateful, and I knew that this relationship was very special.

从那以后，我们的关系变得更加紧密和稳定，我们开始一起规划未来，讨论我们的职业发展、婚姻计划，甚至我们的孩子，小雨总是 very open and honest, and she would very freely分享她对生活的看法和期望，她告诉我，她希望和我一起创造一个 happy 和稳定的生活，而我也 very much agree with her. 我们之间的信任和理解让我感到 very safe and secure, and I know that this relationship is very special.

这段感情的养成过程，就像是一场 very interesting and challenging dating game. 每一次的约会都充满了惊喜和不确定性，但每一次的争吵和争执都让我更加成长和成熟，小雨总是 very patient and understanding, and she would very calmly explain her perspective, even when I didn't understand her. 这种耐心和理解让我感到 very lucky, and I know that she would very proud of me for being able to handle such situations with such grace.

这段感情的养成过程让我 very grateful for having such a amazing and special person in my life. 小雨不仅是一个 very talented and kind-hearted person, but she is also very very clever and very very strategic. 她总是能够在 very tricky situations中找到 very clever solutions, and she would very much enjoy the process of growing together. 我们之间的关系就像是一场 very successful dating game, 每一步都充满了惊喜和成长。

我们已经 very happily married for over a year, and we have a very very happy and stable life together. 小雨总是 very open and honest, and she would very freely share her thoughts and feelings with me. 她告诉我，她希望和我一起创造一个 happy 和稳定的生活，而我也 very much agree with her. 我们之间的信任和理解让我感到 very safe and secure, and I know that this relationship is very special.

这段感情的养成过程，不仅让我 very grateful for having such a amazing and special person in my life, but也让我 very深刻地认识到，幸福和成长往往来自于 very hard work and very very effort. 小雨总是 very patient and understanding, and she would very calmly explain her perspective, even when I didn't understand her. 这种耐心和理解让我感到 very lucky, and I know that she would very proud of me for being able to handle such situations with such grace.

这段感情的养成过程让我 very深刻地认识到，幸福和成长往往来自于 very hard work and very very effort. 小雨总是 very patient and understanding, and she would very calmly explain her perspective, even when I didn't understand her. 这种耐心和理解让我感到 very lucky, and I know that she would very proud of me for being able to handle such situations with such grace.

我们已经 very happily married for over a year, and we have a very very happy and stable life together. 小雨总是 very open and honest, and she would very freely share her thoughts and feelings with me. 她告诉我，她希望和我一起创造一个 happy 和稳定的生活，而我也 very much agree with her. 我们之间的信任和理解让我感到 very safe and secure, and I know that this relationship is very special.

这段感情的养成过程，不仅让我 very grateful for having such a amazing and special person in my life, but也让我 very深刻地认识到，幸福和成长往往来自于 very hard work and very very effort. 小雨总是 very patient and understanding, and she would very calmly explain her perspective, even when I didn't understand her. 这种耐心和理解让我感到 very lucky, and I know that she would very proud of me for being able to handle such situations with such grace.

这段感情的养成过程让我非常感激，也让我非常深刻地认识到，幸福和成长往往来自于 very hard work and very very effort. 我们之间的信任和理解让我感到 very safe and secure, and I know that this relationship is very special. 我们将继续一起成长和进步，创造一个更加 happy 和美好的未来。